Any ideas on about my lazy fella?

does this annoy any one else or is this what i am suppose to do run around after him my fella never picks up his washing or does any thing around the house even to the point were he was leaving the water in the bath til i took plug out he has stopped this. i have to moan for ages to get him to cut the grass and he always phones me to go and buy him things from the shops. he flicks his fag ash around the bathroom leaving marks on the window frame and window sill so i have to clean that and leaves his rubbish every were coke cans bits of rubbish in sink down the side of the bed he puts empty things back in cupboards am i being stupid or does this drive any one else wild